Summer is the time when we all look forward to checking off bucket list items. With longer days, better weather, and kids off from school—why not? But when you're a busy parent, even those extra hours can leave you feeling like there just aren’t enough in the day.

I’ve always loved a good checklist—it keeps me organized—but sometimes it also makes me feel like I’m constantly falling behind. A few years ago, while trying to untangle some of that pressure, my therapist introduced me to the idea of a “Get-To” List—and it completely shifted my mindset.

A “Get-To” List is a simple but powerful reframe. Instead of being ruled by an endless stream of to-dos, it reminds you that many of the things on your list are privileges that you get to do when you can — opportunities to build the life you care about. You get to do them because they bring meaning, joy, or connection. And the best part? You still get that satisfying sense of accomplishment when you check something off—without the guilt of needing to check off specific number of them.

This summer, I’m not making a bucket list just to stay busy. I’m making a Summer Get-To List—a guide to the little joys I want to soak in with my kids, ways to connect with nature, and moments to truly be present. Whether your list needs a refresh or you're just getting started, the goal is the same: to gently remind yourself to experience more, connect often, and make the most of the season.

Here are a few ideas worth adding to your summer get-to list this year:

Unique Events and Festivals

• Morton Arboretum’s "Vivid Creatures" Exhibit: Stroll through the arboretum and marvel at the colorful, large-scale animal sculptures integrated into the natural landscape. 

• See what’s near you this summer and visit a Local Farmers Market 

• Voyage en France at Cantigny Park (July 20, Cantigny): Celebrate French culture with food, music, and activities.

• DuPage County Fair (July 24–27, DuPage County Fairgrounds): Enjoy rides, exhibits, and entertainment at this annual fair.

• Taste of Roselle (August 1–3, Roselle): Savor local flavors and enjoy live entertainment.

Outdoor Fun

• Create Your Summer “Go Bag” for Easy Out-the-Door Days (Amazon Affiliate sponsored links each purchase commissions at no cost to you):

• • DuPage Doubles Tote Bag for all of your essentials

  • ThinkBaby Sunscreen and sunscreen applicator

  • Quitch Geraniol Bug Balm

  • Small wallet for emergency money

  • Pocket Scrunchie

  • 30oz Stanley Tumbler with an easy carry handle, flip-up straw and a beautiful color to help you stay hydrated in the summer heat

• Have a picnic in a local park (Cantigny, Herrick Lake, or Blackwell Forest Preserve) 

• Go to an outdoor movie night

• Watch fireworks on July 4th somewhere you have not seen them before. 

• Fly a kite on a breezy day

• Go berry picking

• Go on a splash pad crawl. Check out this map of DuPage County splash pads. 

• • Favorites: Mary Knoll (Glen Ellyn), Soehrman Park (Willow Springs), 95th Street Library (Naperville), Morton Arboretum’s Children’s Garden, and Wolf’s Crossing Community Park (check our FB members page events to join our playgroups!)

• Make a splash at a water park! Join DuPage Doubles on our Pelican Harbor Water Park outing - see Member Events page for details. 

• Ride bikes on the Illinois Prairie Path. Deck out your bikes for more summer fun (Amazon Affiliate sponsored links):

• • FLEXGTAILGEAR Mini Pump and Taillight inflates road bike tire in 30 seconds and doubles as a taillight. Bonus, you can pump up all of your balls too.

  • Bike cleaning & chain lubrication kit

  • Funny (and practical!) vintage bike horns:

  • Charming handlebar streamers

  • Kids’ bike helmets for safety and style!

Classic Eats & Treats

• Host a backyard BBQ or potluck

• Roast marshmallows and make s’mores 

• Grab ice cream or a milkshake from a local favorite (JoJo’s Shake bar in Naperville and Kimmer’s are both amazing!)

• Lemonade stand day (even just for fun in the driveway)

• Try every flavor of popsicle in the box

• Come to DuPage Doubles Member Banquet or Panera Bread fundraiser to meet other members - see our members FB page for details

Nature & Exploration

• Visit a new playground (Harvester Park in Burr Ridge and Wolf’s Crossing in Naperville are some favorites - see our members Facebook page for upcoming playgroups!) 

• Visit the zoo (Cosley Zoo and Phillips Park Zoo are perfect options for little ones)

• Go on a nature scavenger hunt

• Collect rocks or leaves and make a craft

• Camp out — backyard or local campground. 

• Go fishing! Check out these family-friendly fishing events

• Enjoy backyard stargazing

• Catch fireflies at dusk

• Watch the sunrise or sunset together

Creative at Home

• Make tie-dye shirts

• Paint flower pots and plant something. Mint, parsley, peas, marigolds or zinnias are all easy and fun plants to grow! 

• Create a summer photo album or photo book to remember all the best moments

• Have a fun family photoshoot. Add bubbles, patriotic decor or matching family outfits for more fun.

• Build a pillow fort indoors or in a tent outdoors

• Make homemade popsicles or banana cream ice cream (just freeze bananas and then blend with your favorite flavorings, from chocolate syrup to berries).

Quality Time

• Family game night with everyone in PJs. Visit Treasures in downtown Naperville for unique finds for your game night. 

• Have a summer reading time together - just one chapter or short book a day adds up quick! Join DuPage Doubles book club to get book more motivation and great picks to read.

• Interview your kids or grandkids and record their answers.

• Make a "twin time capsule" to open at the end of summer to remember all you’ve done

• Plan a “yes day” (with boundaries!) where the kids pick what you do

Out & About Favorites

• Visit a local carnival or fair

• See a parade

• Ride a paddle boat or canoe

• Take a day trip to Lake Michigan

• Enjoy an outdoor concert

• See a new movie release together. 

• • Coming Soon to a Theater Near You! For a cool experience, check out the new Superman movie in an exclusive showing on July 8 (3 days before nationwide release!) 

  • Tip: if you are not currently a Prime member, you can sign-up for a 30-day trial to get an exclusive movie experience and take advantage of the Prime Day shopping in July!

• Explore a new DuPage town—make it a Metra day trip! Kids under 11 enjoy a free ride with a fare-paying adult through Labor Day.

• Got train lovers? Try 2Toots Train Whistle Grill, or visit Train Saturdays at the DuPage County Historical Museum

Effortless Glow-Up for Mom (Amazon Affiliate links earning purchase commission):

• Glow through drop-off and splash pad runs – Supergoop! Glow Screen

• Swipe on instant color that works double duty – Milk Makeup Lip + Cheek Stick

• Brighten tired eyes and fake full rest – Lance Lightweight Concealer

• Hydrate, detangle, and protect your hair in seconds – AVEDA Nutriplenish Leave-In - amazing add to your pool bag!

• Stretch your wash days with confidence – R+Co Dry Shampoo

• Refresh your scalp and reclaim your roots – AVEDA Scalp Solutions Shampoo

• Give your body a radiant sheen – Milk Makeup Highlighter Stick

• This peptide-packed Portini moisturizer from Drunk Elephant is like 8 hours of sleep in a jar

We hope this list inspires you to pause, play, and make space for what matters most. And remember, you’re not in it alone—DuPage Doubles is here to cheer you on every step (or splash) of the way.

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About the Author:

Natalia is a mom of 18-month-old fraternal twin boys. She has been a member of DuPage Doubles since 2023. She enjoys traveling with her husband, wellness, spending time with her family and talking about her kids.

Last month I didn’t exactly read One Bad Mother: A Mother’s Search for Meaning in the Police Academy by Megan Williams — let’s be honest, I listened to it while catching up on dishes, folding tiny laundry, and trying to stay awake during nap time. The book’s honesty, grit, and hilarious storytelling felt like a love letter to every overwhelmed mom searching for herself again. Megan’s journey navigating pressures of twin parenthood while applying to the Police Academy reminded me just how easy it is to lose ourselves in caregiving — and how powerful it can be to reclaim even a sliver of space for you.

Each April, we celebrate National Multiple Birth Awareness Month, and this year, Multiples of America announced a theme that couldn’t feel more fitting: “It’s a Balancing Act: Mental Well-Being for Parents of Multiples.” Raising more than one baby at a time multiplies everything—including the mental load. And since you can’t pour from an empty cup, it’s essential to find those little moments that help you reset. Just 15 minutes can make a difference.

This month, I encourage you to take 15 minutes of YOU time—go for a walk, listen to a chapter, sip a hot coffee, or do whatever helps you feel more like yourself.

To help you get started, I pulled together some self-care ideas below—as always, complete with handy Amazon affiliate links that earn DuPage Doubles a small commission (at no extra cost to you) when you shop. It’s an easy way to treat yourself and support your club.

1. Staying hydrated has so many benefits, and it is so easy! Keep a tumbler on your bed stand to make it easy to wake up and start your day with a glass of water
2. Take a walk outside and be mindful of nature around you
3. Do a full body stretch or quick yoga flow 
4. Meditate or just sit still and reflect. Need inspiration? Check out Self Care Reflection cards for prompts to ponder
5. Take a power nap
6. Set up a cozy corner—blanket, candle, book, tea
7. Read or listen to a book. Need a suggestion? One Bad Mother: A Mother’s Search for Meaning in the Police Academy by Megan Williams or read with DuPage Doubles pick Malibu Rising by Taylor Jenkins Reid
8. Enjoy a hot beverage
9. Do a relaxing face mask or foot mask
10. Color to unwind
11. Take a hot shower. Elevate it even more with aromatherapy shower steamers 
12. Get a spring haul of your favorite skincare products. Kiehl’s Ultra Facial Cream is one of my favorites
13. Set up a mini-DIY spa night with some bath bombs, body scrub, and a hair mask
14. Journal or write down some grateful notes for the day. Do it in style with a beautiful notebook
15. Declutter one drawer or surface
16. Dance in your kitchen to your favorite song. You can try Amazon Music Unlimited for free 
17. Work on a jigsaw puzzle
18. Set a timer and just be still for 15 minutes
19. Call or message a friend who gets it. Even better, come to one of the DuPage Doubles member events!
20. Post your self-care photo to the Multiples of America Members Only Facebook group for the 15 Minutes of YOU Time Snapshot Challenge for a chance to win a prize!

You’re doing something extraordinary—raising multiple humans at once. That’s why your mental health, joy, and well-being matter more than ever. Even 15 minutes of YOU time can help shift your mood and restore your energy. You’re not alone, and you’re doing great.

Happy Multiple Birth Awareness Month from our family to yours.

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About the Author:

Natalia is a mom of 18-month-old fraternal twin boys. She has been a member of DuPage Doubles since 2023. She enjoys traveling with her husband, wellness, spending time with her family and talking about her kids.

Recently, I read Atomic Habits by James Clear. If you’re looking for inspiration, you can easily listen to it with a free monthly audiobook available with Amazon Music Unlimited subscription. The central idea of the book is that little adjustments, done consistently, build momentum and create lasting improvements. As a busy parent, this got me thinking about refreshing my space, my routine, and even my mindset in small, manageable ways.

With the days getting longer and that fresh-start spring feeling in the air, now is the perfect time for a spring refresh. This month, I want to share some tips about making simple, easy changes to breathe new life into what you already have, find a few great deals, and make things feel a little lighter and brighter.

I’ve included Amazon affiliate links to my favorite eco-friendly finds for your convenience and inspiration. When you shop through our product links, DuPage Doubles receives a small commission from Amazon, which helps support our club’s operations at no added cost to you.

Let’s jump into the refresh!

  1. Refresh & Revive What You Already Have

No need to replace everything -- sometimes a little TLC is all it takes!

Clothing & Fabric Refresh

• Pill-y sweaters? No thanks. Grab a Conair Fabric Shaver and give your knits a second life.
• Mystery stains? (Because kids, coffee, or both.) Mix hydrogen peroxide, baking soda, and dish soap, apply it to stains, and let it sit. Or keep it simple with Puracy Natural Stain Remover – because who has time to scrub?
• Gym clothes smelling... less than fresh? Add distilled white vinegar to your wash and say goodbye to that sweaty funk.
• Whites looking sad? Wash with a mix of hot water, Tide Pods Ultra Oxi and a little bit of lemon juice for that crisp, bright look.

Sports & Outdoor Gear Refresh

• Sneakers looking rough? Mix Arm & Hammer Baking Soda with hydrogen peroxide, scrub with an old toothbrush, and watch the magic happen.
• Sole whitening hack: A Mr. Clean Magic Eraser + a little elbow grease = like-new kicks.
• Flat basketballs, soccer balls, or bike tires? Keep an Electric Ball Pump on hand and stop playing the “is this fully inflated?” guessing game.
• Dusty scooters and helmets? A quick wipe-down with Seventh Generation Disinfecting Wipes will have them ready to roll.
• Bike looking rough? Scrub off grime with Finish Line Bike Wash and Muc-Off Bio Bike Chain Cleaner, give the chain some love with Finish Line Dry Teflon Bicycle Chain Lube, and you're ready for a spring ride.
• Water bottles get gross, let’s be real. Fill with warm water and Bottle Bright Cleaning Tablets, let it sit, scrub with a Hydro Flask Bottle Brush, and boom -- like new!

  2. Refresh & Upgrade Your Stuff with Resale Deals

Who doesn’t love a good deal? Spring resale events are a great way to score high-quality finds at budget-friendly prices. Did you know that DuPage Doubles hosts its own online resale twice a year to support our club? Join our Resale Info Facebook group to always be in the know about our resale events.

Visit shop.dupagedoubles.com on March 15-16, 2025, for a fun, sustainable, and cost-effective way to shop while giving back to our community. From kids’ gear to clothing and more, there's something for everyone in the family! Item pick-up will take place at the DuPage County Fairgrounds on March 21-22, 2025.

What to Look for at Resale Events?

• Kids' Clothes & Toys – Because they grow like weeds, and their favorite “must-have” toys change every five minutes.
• Outdoor & Sports Gear – Bikes, scooters, and hiking gear -- because adventure season is here.
• Baby Gear – Strollers, carriers, and highchairs -- because new doesn’t always mean better.
• Discounted Branded Gear – Think premium outdoor wear, athletic shoes, and designer handbags (for a steal!).
• Something Just for You – You spend all day shopping for the kids -- get yourself a cute new spring outfit while you're at it!

Don’t Miss DuPage Doubles Resale!

  3. Refresh Yourself: Simple Ways to Feel Recharged

Last month, our club hosted a watch party to hear from Smadar Zmirin of Twinful Life, who spoke at a Multiples of America webinar about easing the transition to parenthood, especially for parents of multiples. Central to her talk was the RIE (Resources for Infant Educators) Parenting philosophy founded by Magda Gerber and inspired by Emmi Pikler. One of the biggest takeaways? Sometimes, doing less actually means enjoying more – especially as a parent of twins. Instead of constantly trying to structure every moment, RIE encourages parents to slow down, trust our kids' natural development, and let them explore independently.

So why not try this mindset as part of your spring refresh? Simply being present and prioritizing connections can make you feel good inside and out without being overwhelmed. And just like our kids, we thrive when we take care of ourselves in small, meaningful ways!

Self-Care Refresh

• Lightweight hydration – The Ordinary Natural Moisturizer keeps skin soft and hydrated all day without feeling greasy.
• Skincare glow-up? – Try TruSkin Vitamin C Serum or a simple way to brighten your skin without a complicated routine.
• Upgrade your water bottle – Hydration makes a huge difference in how you feel! Swap out your old bottle for a Hydro Flask or an Owala FreeSip for all-day hydration.
• Aromatherapy for relaxation – A few drops of Vitruvi Essential Oils in a Vitruvi diffuser can make your space feel fresh and calm.
• Soft and cozy refresh – Upgrade your everyday comfort with a Barefoot Dreams Throw Blanket for those much-needed moments of relaxation.

  4. Refresh Your Space: Keep Clutter Away for Good

A spring refresh isn’t just about tidying up -- it’s about setting up simple systems to keep clutter from creeping back in. The key? Make organization effortless by creating designated spaces for everything, streamlining what you own, and making decluttering a natural habit.

A little organization now means less stress later. And the best part? You don’t have to tackle everything at once -- just a few smart systems can keep clutter from creeping back in. Whether it’s setting up a system for rotating seasonal items or keeping a donation bin handy, small steps make all the difference in creating a home that feels lighter and more manageable.

Smart Storage Solutions

• Declutter as you go: Keep a collapsible storage bin in the closet or laundry room for donation items so you're always clearing out what you no longer need.
• Rotate seasonal items: Store off-season clothes and bulky winter gear in stackable storage bins so only the essentials stay accessible.
• Contain the chaos: Use adjustable drawer organizers to prevent junk drawers from overflowing and everything labelled and organized with this Brother Label Maker
• Control cords and devices: A bamboo charging station keeps chargers and gadgets in one place, avoiding counter clutter.

Easy Habits to Stay Organized

• One in, one out rule: Every time you bring something new into your home, donate or discard something old.
• 15-minute resets: Set a timer once a day to do a quick tidy-up -- keeping things organized without a big effort.
• Monthly mini-purges: Pick one area (a drawer, a closet, a shelf) and declutter a little at a time instead of all at once.

A clutter-free home doesn’t require perfection -- just small, consistent habits to keep things in check!

Ready to Refresh?

Spring is all about fresh starts, and your home, wardrobe, and mindset deserve one, too! So go ahead -- declutter, refresh, and maybe even score some amazing deals. And don’t forget -- DuPage Doubles Resale is March 15-16! Join our Resale Facebook group and save the date to snag some spring finds before they’re gone!

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About the Author:

Natalia is a mom of 18-month-old fraternal twin boys. She has been a member of DuPage Doubles since 2023. She enjoys traveling with her husband, wellness, spending time with her family and talking about her kids.

Whenever I hang out with my fellow moms, I’m reminded that mom advice is the best. There’s just nothing like it. In January, we had so many incredible DuPage Doubles events where parents and families of twins at all stages could catch up: we laughed over charcuterie at our board party, cheered on knights at Medieval Times, shared French pastries, coffee, and conversations at our new parents' night, and had a fun book club discussion.

In addition to being tons of fun, these moments were packed with amazing mom tips for personal wellness - the kind that are just too good to keep to myself. From self-care rituals that make winter feel a little less blah to genius hacks that help life run a little smoother, I walked away with a list of small-but-mighty favorites that are making my February better.

So, let’s talk about winter wellness. Not the overwhelming, full-reset kind – just some of our club’s favorite little things that help us feel a bit better, inside and out. For convenience, I’ve included some Amazon Affiliate links to our favorite products. When you shop through these links, DuPage Doubles receives a small commission from Amazon at no added cost to you. We use these proceeds to help support our club’s operations.

1. The Self-Care Sunday, Featuring “Everything” Shower

If you haven’t heard of this, it’s a perfect Sunday self-care ritual where you take a shower and do all the things—hair mask, body scrub, exfoliation, the works. It’s the reset button of self-care. Light a candle, put on a playlist, and pretend your bathroom is a spa for 20 minutes. Here are our club’s favorite products to help you do it:

● Avatara Drink Up Facial Masks

● Chapstick with delightful tropical flavors

● Raw Sugar Hair Care Set - especially the hair mask!

● Aveeno Foot and Hand Mask Bundle

● The Ordinary Lightweight Body Lotion

● L’Oreal Double Extend Mascara to look glam every day after your self-care Sunday.

2. Cozy, Nourishing Drinks

Winter in the Midwest calls for something comforting but still fresh. This Warm Pear & Ginger Smoothie is lightly spiced, creamy, and soothing – warming you up without being too heavy. The pear adds natural sweetness, the ginger brings a little zing (and immune support!), and the coconut milk makes it ultra-smooth.

Warm Pear & Ginger Smoothie Recipe

Ingredients:

● 1 ripe pear, chopped

● 1⁄2-inch piece of fresh ginger, peeled & minced

● 1⁄2 cup warm coconut milk (or regular milk)

● 1⁄4 cup Greek yogurt (for protein & creaminess)

● 1⁄2 tsp cinnamon

● 1 tsp honey or maple syrup (optional)

● 1 tbsp flax or chia seeds (optional, for extra fiber & omega-3s)

Instructions:

1. Chop the pear and ginger into small pieces. No need to peel the pear—just remove the core!
2. Lightly warm the coconut milk (stovetop or microwave for 30 seconds).
3. Add all ingredients to a blender and blend until smooth.
4. Pour into a mug, sprinkle with a little extra cinnamon, and enjoy while warm!

This smoothie is simple, satisfying, and packed with seasonal ingredients that make winter feel a little less dreary. It’s perfect for a nourishing start to the day, a cozy afternoon pick-me-up, or even a light dessert.

Our club’s kitchen favorites to make it even easier include:

● Cuisinart Kitchen Knife Set perfect for quick and easy chopping, peeling, and coring. Plus, the fun colors make it easy to grab the right knife for the job!

● Swedish Kitchen Cloths are a perfect replacement for paper towels to wipe up any juice spills or sticky fingers.

● Skoy Non-Scratch Dish Scrubber Pads make dishwashing a breeze, and the best part? They don’t trap odors like traditional sponges!

3. A Mid-Winter Refresh for Your Car

If you’re a parent—especially a parent of multiples—you probably spend a lot of time driving people around. Here are our favorite finds that make car time easier and much less messy:

• Extra Long Multi-Charger USB Cable to help you be the hero who always has the right charger.
• Car Trash Can: not glamorous, but I promise a clean car makes every drive so much better.
• Car Seat Headrest Hooks for keeping purses, coats and bags handy.
• Saucemoto Dip Clip to neatly hold dipping sauces from any major fast-food restaurant on the go.

4. A Good Book & Something Just for You

When was the last time you read something just for fun?

• Our DuPage Doubles book club just finished reading One Perfect Couple by Ruth Ware - a twisty thriller set on a tropical island where a reality TV competition takes a deadly turn. It’s the kind of book that pulls you in and keeps you guessing until the last page.
• Prefer to listen? Get it on Audible or Amazon Music Unlimited, which now gives you one free Audible book per month at no extra charge.
• Rechargeable Reading Light to help you read just one more chapter even when others are asleep.
• Açaí and blueberry flavored dark chocolate - a must-have for your grown-up snack stash and the perfect treat to complement your reading time!

Winter can feel long, but it doesn’t have to be boring. Whether it’s an “everything” shower, a cozy drink, or a little refresh for your space, these small things can make a big difference.

And if you’ve got a favorite February pick-me-up, share it with us! We’re always looking for more ways to make this season a little more fun, a little more relaxing, and a little less February.

The holidays are a whirlwind of joy and chaos, especially for parents juggling the needs of multiple kids across different ages. As a mom of twin toddlers, I know firsthand that the joy of the season comes from more than just gifts and decorations—it’s about finding those small, magical moments of connection.

This time last year, my boys were six months old, and my favorite holiday memories came from the most unexpected places. During the holidays, what started as the dread of waking in the middle of the night turned into a cherished memory of snuggles under our little pre-lit Christmas tree. I vividly remember my sons gazing in awe as the lights swirled across the ceiling in mesmerizing patterns.

Another favorite memory was attending DuPage Doubles’ Cookies with Santa. As a first-time parent, I was terrified of the logistics of venturing out of the house with two babies, let alone attending an event. However, as soon as we arrived, we were greeted with such warmth by a room full of people who understood exactly what we were going through. There was no judgment—just encouragement to enjoy the moment.

We shared a hilarious connection with our newfound friends as we all tried to wrangle two babies into a photo with Santa (and, of course, one of mine inevitably tried to grab Santa’s beard!). It was chaotic, but also a moment of pure joy.

No matter the age, the holidays are a chance to celebrate togetherness, even amidst the beautiful mess of real life. Here’s your ultimate guide with ideas for gifts, activities, and treats to bring a little sparkle to the season for every age group!

Before we dive in, a quick note, this guide includes Amazon Affiliate links, which means DuPage Doubles earns a small commission on purchases made through these links. We use the funds to help support our club’s activities with no added cost to you. Featured products are independently chosen based on our personal experiences, and we receive no concessions from manufacturers. You’ll also find links to holiday events my family has enjoyed; DuPage Doubles is not affiliated with these.

Please remember, you know what works best for your family, so use this guide as inspiration and make purchase decisions accordingly. I hope it inspires joyful holiday moments for your family!

Babies (0-12 months): Tiny Moments, Big Memories

Babies may not remember their first holiday, but these moments will stick with you forever. It’s all about sharing sensory experiences, like twinkling lights or soft holiday music.

Gift Ideas:

• Simple sensory toys to help little hands explore. My kids loved a Tissue Box with soft and crinkly cloths and a sorter box.
• Holiday pjs to snuggle in-style and take some fun photos with your babies.
• Echo Dot to get to both fun and soothing music times hands-free, which I found to be especially important when my hands were full of babies! Bonus, Amazon will ship it to you in a fun box that your babies can enjoy right away! 

Activities:

• Take a walk around the neighborhood and see the lights and decorations while babywearing or pushing a stroller. Did you know DuPage Doubles has a whole baby carrier library to help you find the right one for you?
• Create a sensory experience exploring shiny wrapping paper and colorful tissue paper. Alternatively, get a soft holiday blanket and give your kids a ride on it or play Peek-a-Boo.
• Snap family photos in front of a lighted tree for a keepsake to treasure.  Pro Tip: Get a pocket-sized tripod and timer option on your phone to snap some pictures wherever you are!

Holiday Treat Idea: Fruit Puree Popsicles (Best for 6mo+)

1. Blend 1 cup of pureed fruit (like apples, pears, or bananas) with a splash of formula or breastmilk.
2. Pour into holiday-themed silicone molds or an ice cube tray.
3. Freeze for 4-6 hours.
4. Serve as a cool, soothing treat for a fun treat or even for teething relief.

Toddlers (1-3 years): Exploring Holiday Magic

Toddlers love to get hands-on! The holidays are a time to spark their curiosity and let them explore in fun, simple ways.

Gift Ideas:

• Try a Magnetic Drawing Board for mess-free self-expression.
• Toddler Musical Instrument Set to jam out together to their favorite tunes! To help you get your favorite music on-demand and hands-free, you can check out Amazon's smart devices and try Amazon Music Unlimited.
• Mega Bloks to build those towers that are so much fun to knock down.

Activities:

• Visit a walk-through holiday light display with oversized glowing ornaments or inflatables. Winter Lights at Central Park in Oakbrook and Peppermint Path at Lisle Community Park are both really cute options that are contained for toddlers’ short attention spans and doesn't require a lot of planning.
• Let them “help” decorate the tree with unbreakable ornaments. These wooden ornaments here or these fun gingerbread men here are beautiful and also won’t shatter.
• Create a sensory bin with holiday-themed trinkets, plastic cookie cutters and bows. Always make sure items don’t have small parts that can be easily swallowed and supervise the child when exploring the items.

Treat Idea: Decorated Sugar Cookies

1. Preheat the oven to 350°F.
2. Mix 1 cup softened butter, 1 cup sugar, 1 egg, and 1 tsp vanilla in a bowl. My boys love playing with spoons and measuring cups while the mom cooks.
3. Add 2 ¾ cups flour and 1 tsp baking soda, mixing until dough forms.
4. Roll out the dough and cut into holiday shapes with cookie cutters
5. Bake for 8-10 minutes. Let cool, then decorate together with sprinkles and icing

Younger Kids (4-8 years): Building Holiday Traditions

Younger kids are old enough to remember these moments, making this the perfect age to start traditions they’ll treasure.

Gift Ideas:

• Magna-Tiles and other building sets to help them with creative expression
• Tonies Audio Box set is perfect for listening to stories independently.
• Pretend-play sets, like this ice cream stand

Activities:

• Take them to a zoo lights display or a town square with light tunnels and festive décor. Check out Festival of Lights at the Cosley Zoo in Wheaton for a stress-less option or Holiday Lights at Lilacia Park in Lombard, both of which are free!
• Host a cookie-decorating party with icing, sprinkles, and fun toppings.
• Plan a holiday scavenger hunt for ornaments or candy canes around the house.

Treat Idea: Gingerbread Houses

1. Mix 3 cups flour, 1 tsp baking soda, 2 tsp ginger, 1 tsp cinnamon, 1/2 tsp cloves, and 1/2 tsp salt.
2. Cream 3/4 cup butter and 3/4 cup sugar. Add 1 egg and 1/2 cup molasses. Combine wet and dry ingredients.
3. Roll out dough and mold into house shapes using gingerbread molds or cutters.
4. Bake at 350°F for 8-10 minutes. Use icing to "glue" pieces together and decorate with candy.

If this seems like too much work, you can just buy a pre-made house kit and focus on assembly and decoration!

Older Kids (9-12 years): Discovering Independence

At this age, kids want independence but still enjoy family traditions. Connection is about letting them explore new things and shine through creativity and responsibility.

Gift Ideas:

• Exploration projects that combine learning and fun, like these National Geographic Exploration kits.
• Personalized books make for a unique gift! They’ll love seeing themselves in a seek & find story or hero's journey.
• Roblox Robux for video game lovers

Activities:

• Take them to Christmas at Cantigny where they can see historic McCormick House in holiday decor, go ice skating, or check out a Very Taylor Christmas every Sunday.
• Let them lead a family bake-off, making cookies from start to finish.
• Create DIY ornaments as gifts for teachers or relatives.

Treat Idea: Peppermint Bark Cookies

1. Preheat the oven to 350°F.
2. Cream together 3/4 cup softened unsalted butter and 1 cup sugar until light and fluffy.
3. Mix in 1 egg, 1 teaspoon vanilla extract, and 1/2 teaspoon peppermint extract (optional).
4. Gradually add 2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour, 1/2 teaspoon baking powder, and 1/4 teaspoon salt until a dough forms.
5. Roll out the dough to 1/4-inch thickness on a floured surface and cut into circles.
6. Bake on a parchment-lined baking sheet for 8-10 minutes, until edges are lightly golden. Cool completely.
7. Melt 1 cup semi-sweet or white chocolate chips in the microwave in 30-second intervals, stirring until smooth.
8. Spread a thin layer of chocolate over each cookie and immediately sprinkle with 1 cup crushed candy canes.
9. Let cookies set at room temperature or refrigerate for 10-15 minutes until the chocolate hardens.

Teens: Balancing Cool and Connected

Teens may act too cool for holiday traditions, but they still crave meaningful moments. Let them help shape the family’s holiday plans while keeping things light and fun.

Gift Ideas:

• Teens can process their emotions with a journal.
• Help your multiples (or singletons!) establish a good skin care routine with simple beauty products.
• Encourage your kids to go screen free and calm their mind with the Shashibo Shape Shifting Box.

Activities:

• Visit an immersive light display, like Morton Arboretum Illumination featuring over a mile of decorated natural landscapes and light shows.
• Break out your family’s favorite board games and have a game night.
• Challenge them to bake trendy desserts like hot cocoa bombs.

Treat Idea: Hot Cocoa Bombs

1. Melt chocolate and brush it into silicone molds to form half-spheres. Let set.
2. Gently stretch and push the mold to get the half-spheres out.
3. Fill half the spheres with hot cocoa mix and mini marshmallows.
4. Seal two halves together with melted chocolate. Add additional decorations as desired!
5. Serve with warm milk—watch them melt and enjoy!

Young Adults (College-Aged): Nostalgia Meets New Traditions

For young adults, the holidays are a chance to reconnect with family traditions while introducing new ones of their own.

Gift Ideas:

• A portable charger will help them keep all of their devices charged on-the-go
• Access thousands of books and podcasts with Audible Gift Subscription
• Stanley Tumbler for staying hydrated between classes

Activities:

• Go for a holiday lights drive while reminiscing about childhood memories. This year, Northwestern Medicine Field, hosts Santa’s Rock ‘N Lights.
• Bake nostalgic treats like cookies they loved as kids.
• Watch holiday movies you’ve enjoyed together over the years.

Treat Idea: Shortbread Stars

1. Preheat the oven to 325°F.
2. Mix 1 cup butter, 1/2 cup sugar, and 2 cups flour until a dough forms.
3. Roll out and cut into star shapes. 
4. Bake for 20-25 minutes or until lightly golden.

Grandparents: Cherishing Traditions

Grandparents love time with family. The holidays are a perfect chance to bridge generations through traditions and storytelling.

Gift Ideas:

• A Legacy Journal can help them share their memories.
• Cozy slippers to keep them warm and comfortable
• Spend time together customizing ornaments for a family tree

Activities:

• Take a slow walk through a nearby light display or go to the Festival of Lights at the Phillips Park in Aurora for a great drive-through option. You can find more info here.
• Share holiday stories or watch classic holiday movies together.
• Include them in cookie-decorating sessions with the kids.

Treat Idea: Classic Thumbprint Cookies

1. Preheat the oven to 350°F.
2. Mix 1 cup butter, 1/2 cup sugar, 2 cups flour, and a pinch of salt until dough forms.
3. Roll into balls, press your thumb in the center, and fill with jam.
4. Bake for 10-12 minutes.

YOU! (Mom, Dad, & every caregiver in between): Finding Your Holiday Joy

You’re at the heart of all the holiday planning, but it’s just as important to carve out moments that feel special for you. Whether it’s joining DuPage Doubles for a holiday event like Cookies with Santa, enjoying a romantic stroll through a holiday light display, or hosting a small gathering with friends to share some laughs, take time to find those little moments that spark joy and recharge your spirit. Happy Holidays!

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About DuPage Doubles

DuPage Doubles is a community of parents of multiples who understand the unique joys and challenges of raising twins, triplets, or more. We focus on creating opportunities for social connection and fostering a supportive network for families of multiples.

Learn more about us on our website: https://dupagedoublesfamiliesofmultiplesclub.wildapricot.org/

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About the Author:

Natalia is a mom of 18-month-old fraternal twin boys. She has been a member of DuPage Doubles since 2023. She enjoys traveling with her husband, wellness, spending time with her family and talking about her kids.